Wednesday, June 15, 2011

My Experience With: Anal

Before I first had sex, for as long as I can remember, by opinion on anal was simple. EXIT ONLY. Then I had sex.

Once I did the hand job, the blow job, and streamline intercourse...I was ready to experience more. At first, I was more than content to try the whole gamete of different positions. And then anal came to mind.

At this point, I was thinking why not? I'm ready, I'm open, let's do this. Right off the bat I knew that huge cock was not just going to slide into my tight asshole. I knew it was something I had to do gradually. I had my guy get to close to 3/4 mast. Hard enough to penetrate but soft enough not to tare. Lots of lube was involved. I laid on my back and pulled my knees to my chest. He slowly circled my ass with his head, pushing in a bit. This works wonders to gently relax the opening. The head is the hard part usually, depending on the cock shape. Once the head was in, he inched inside me. It felt like little sparks going off inside me, especially once he was fully hard. If you're trying this for the first time, you'll notice your body feels something inside it at this point and the muscles contract to try and push it out. The only work my guy had to do was thrust in. He climaxed and I felt accomplished. From EXIT ONLY to cum dripping out of my about leaps and bounds.

I tried this a handful more times. I didn't feel much pleasure from it personally. Medically, the anus and the lower part of the anal canal are liberally supplied with sensory nerves. I've noticed you can lessen the discomfort of anal by stimulating the other erogenous zones simultaneously. Still, I personally don't get much from anal. It isn't a big deal. I don't crave it. But since I don't have any negative experiences, I'm more than happy to please my partner by doing it, if that is their desire. I do however experience pleasure from a toy in my ass while I'm getting fucked...DP if you will.

If you're going to do it, don't be an idiot about it. Use lube, condoms help. Never go from anus to pussy or mouth without changing the condom. Same goes for toys. If she says stop, stop. We've all heard the horror stories about anal but if you do it right, you should have no problems.

My views of anal before I tried it were naive and ignorant. Be open, relax and take it slow. It may be a perfect addition to your sex life.

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