Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Toy Focus: G-Gasm

My go-to toy has become this g-gasm delight. I am a simple woman and this toy is sleek without bells and whistles. Bottom line; anyone can make this work in the bedroom.

It started out innocent enough...I put the head on my clit and pulled it back and forth. I wasn't into the g-spot at the time. Slowly increasing the vroom power, I was able to cum just from my clit. After a particular orgasm I was extremely wet and slid the toy inside me. I led it until it hooked on my gspot. There is sat as I turned the vibrator on. It found my sweet spot and made me crave cock; as a good toy should. I added to the stimulation by touching my clit....mind-blowing would be a good start in explaining the incredible combination. It is because of this toy, I crave a toy, fingers or cock inside me whenever I cum.

As you can see, this toy is great solo. My issue with most toys is men look at them like some foreign objects not intended for their exploration. This one is very easy and therefore, partner friendly. The twist bottoms and increases vibration intensity. If he looks at you funny with this one, you might want to put your pants back on and RUN! 

If you're looking for a bit higher end in a toy purchase, I suggest this. The major difference is the material. G-Gasm is made of hard, slick plastic whereas the zenith has a velvety feel to it. Both could use less noise on their resume but nothing is perfect.

And I haven't forgotten about my guys. This can also be used for p-spot play. I'm an equal opportunist in toy reviews too.

Thursday, July 28, 2011

The Art of Eating Out

And no, I'm not talking about at a restaurant. Let's talk about oral.

I know it can seem like a daunting task if you don't know what you're doing or aren't getting the pleasurable results you are hoping for. I'm going to share what I enjoy and a few tips on what you can try with your girl. 

For me, foreplay is key. It gets my clit swollen and begging to be touched. If you start out just diving into it, you have to work harder since the clit doesn't have the blood flow it would have from foreplay stimulation. You don't want to waste time getting the clit big without it. It can lead to annoyance on both you and your partner since it is time consuming. Kiss, lick, tease the body and the clit will be begging for attention soon. Let your hands run all over her body, hovering over her crotch as you kiss and lick your way down her chest and stomach. You may want to do the same from the inner thigh up to the clit. This is the perfect way to tell her that you want her.

Now that the clit is plump, you're going to want to spread the lips. I do this even when I masturbate. It gets the skin out of the way and puts the clit front and center. I like an initial kiss, lips wrapped around the clit, sucking gently. It is such a tease but I love it. If she really enjoys that, do it a few more times. I like a full flat tongue against my clit, licking bottom to top before the tip of the tongue licks up and down. If you feel like teasing her a bit more, run your tongue in circles around the clit. If your tongue gets tired from the up and down, try side to side. Be aware of what makes her squirm. It is good to try a few things and take note of what she really seems to be enjoying and go back to that. If you were to lick my clit up and down, side to side, then in circles, you'd notice my extreme reaction to the up and down. 

I don't expect any man to use his tongue from start to finish when it comes to oral sex so knowledge of how to finger is also a crucial part. I think it enhances the experience. When using fingers on the clit, I always love it nice and wet. My guy either uses saliva or my cum. If your tongue gets tired but you know that what you were doing was working, just replace your tongue with your fingers. My guy switches between his tongue up and down to three fingers rubbing up and down. A seamless transition is crucial! A few seconds between your tongue and fingers can mean starting all over again. You don't want to put all that work in with your tongue and have your partner so close to climax just to have to go back to square one. So have your fingers ready to take over. I would use this time to make eye contact and show and tell how much you love her taste and squirms. When your tongue is ready for more, make the seamless transition again and slide your fingers into her pussy. Hook the fingers to find her g-spot. You can also use a toy if you want. I can't explain how amazing the dual stimulation feels with my mans tongue against my clit and his fingers or g-spot toy deep inside me. 

With all that stimulation, I can usually cum, start to finish, in 5-10 minutes. I cum harder when there is something in my cunt, fingers or toy. Having something inside to clench while I orgasm is an incredible feeling. This has been my experience, from trial and error and is just a starting point for you to try yourself. Women are different. Different things turn us on and different techniques get us to climax. For a few times, your experience may be trying different things just to see what she reacts to. Don't be afraid to ask what she enjoyed in a playful way. It won't be long until you're a pro at pleasing your woman orally. I can tell you from personal experience, the more I get, the more I want to give ;) So don't be deterred by your lack of experience or lack of success in the past. Put in the time to find what she likes and you'll have her screaming for more in no time. 

All this talk about oral has turned me on. I hope my favorite tongue gets home soon!

Monday, June 20, 2011

What's Your Favorite ____: Sex Toy Edition

This one is interactive people. Self explanatory...what is your favorite sex toy? 

I'm always looking for new toys to review so either leave a comment here or @ me on twitter.

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

My Experience With: Anal

Before I first had sex, for as long as I can remember, by opinion on anal was simple. EXIT ONLY. Then I had sex.

Once I did the hand job, the blow job, and streamline intercourse...I was ready to experience more. At first, I was more than content to try the whole gamete of different positions. And then anal came to mind.

At this point, I was thinking why not? I'm ready, I'm open, let's do this. Right off the bat I knew that huge cock was not just going to slide into my tight asshole. I knew it was something I had to do gradually. I had my guy get to close to 3/4 mast. Hard enough to penetrate but soft enough not to tare. Lots of lube was involved. I laid on my back and pulled my knees to my chest. He slowly circled my ass with his head, pushing in a bit. This works wonders to gently relax the opening. The head is the hard part usually, depending on the cock shape. Once the head was in, he inched inside me. It felt like little sparks going off inside me, especially once he was fully hard. If you're trying this for the first time, you'll notice your body feels something inside it at this point and the muscles contract to try and push it out. The only work my guy had to do was thrust in. He climaxed and I felt accomplished. From EXIT ONLY to cum dripping out of my ass...talk about leaps and bounds.

I tried this a handful more times. I didn't feel much pleasure from it personally. Medically, the anus and the lower part of the anal canal are liberally supplied with sensory nerves. I've noticed you can lessen the discomfort of anal by stimulating the other erogenous zones simultaneously. Still, I personally don't get much from anal. It isn't a big deal. I don't crave it. But since I don't have any negative experiences, I'm more than happy to please my partner by doing it, if that is their desire. I do however experience pleasure from a toy in my ass while I'm getting fucked...DP if you will.

If you're going to do it, don't be an idiot about it. Use lube, condoms help. Never go from anus to pussy or mouth without changing the condom. Same goes for toys. If she says stop, stop. We've all heard the horror stories about anal but if you do it right, you should have no problems.

My views of anal before I tried it were naive and ignorant. Be open, relax and take it slow. It may be a perfect addition to your sex life.

Monday, May 9, 2011

Inception of Wet Dreams

Have you seen Inception? If not, you probably won't understand what I'm about to write. If you have, read on.

A little background to begin. I have vivid dreams. I wake up and wonder whether they actually happened or not. This can be quite entertaining when it comes to wet dreams, which are becoming more and more frequent. Not complaining.

So this Sunday, I took a little snooze in the afternoon. I remember my dream starting out at a hotel, meeting a guy for the first time. I took care of his cock in every way imaginable. Hands, mouth, pussy, ass...cum everywhere. Next thing I knew, I was alone, writhing with pleasure, fingering my cunt and feeling unbelievable. And then I woke up, but I was still fingering myself, moaning, and feeling the most amazing sensations all over my naked body. By the time I actually woke up and my hand wasn't in my pants I was pissed. How was this self love fest not really happening? So I made it happen. 

I had been talking to one of my twitter followers that day so I blame him fully for planting the lust in my head. Which led to a wet dream, within a wet dream, inside another wet dream. My own personal wet dream version of the movie Inception. 

I am always up for a new idea being planted in my dirty mind because you know I won't hesitate to fulfill my wet dream fantasies.

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

The Art of Road-Head

Road-head requires natural talent and acquired skills. You have to master the act of giving amazing blow jobs first. Everyone has to master the bike with training wheels on before taking on the real challenge. 

My opinion, the perfect blow job uses both the mouth and hands. I usually deep throat while using my hands to play with the balls. I can't stress this enough. Don't ignore the balls. They don't just go away because you don't pay attention to them. They are there, begging to get some action too. 

Deep throating is another challenge I think every woman should conquer. The less handling the cock requires, the hotter the blow job. If he wanted a hand job, he'd have asked for one. But no, he wants ORAL. For everyday blow jobs, deep throating is amazing but when we talk of road head, remember roads aren't always flat and you need to know how to take a dick in your throat in the event of a ditch or other unsavory road bumps. I had trouble in the beginning thinking I had to slide the cock slowly down as far as it would go. And I'd gag. Then I started opening my mouth and taking as much of it in my mouth as I could before closing my mouth. It works wonders. It is almost like bypassing the soft palate completely therefore eliminating the gag reflex. I've tested this on a range of sizes and it works with them all.

Now you're ready to get down to business in your automobile. I suggest rubbing the cock until it becomes hard before you begin. If you want an audience, get in a sedan or sports car. If you're more of a shy person, you better have an SUV or truck. The higher you are, the less people will see you. Night is even better if you're looking for a more private experience. Be aware of the front seat. The easiest way is when there is no hump or center console but that is rare now a days. So you're going to have to figure out how to situate your body across a stick shift or center console. I usually unbuckle my seat belt and lay my stomach on the console. I have more control this way, using my abdominal area to keep me steady. Once the cock is out, reach your hands down to the balls and take that sucker in your mouth. Do it however you like. Make it slow and passionate or wet and sloppy. Don't let your mind wander into thinking "oh no someone will see" or thinking it is somehow different from how you normally give a BJ. It's not. Location change? Yes. But a cock is still a cock and your mouth needs to be put to good use.

Monday, May 2, 2011


I have zero issue telling people I don't care about, how I really feel and what I think of them. I will lay on the truth like a fat person lays on ranch dressing. I've been called brutally honest too many times to count. I just don't care.

My issue comes when, on the rare occasion, I actually genuinely like a person. I tend to be less upfront about disappointment. I'll try and hide it and often come off as being cold and distant. I often see my feelings as a burden so I usually fold it up real nice and deal with it when I'm alone. This keeps people from fully understanding me and how they effect me. I never vent. I never call people to talk about it. I won't write some long drawn out email explaining everything. I'll just say ok. Or alright. Or that's fine and just deal with it alone.

Just this past few weeks, I've been hit with disappointment left and right. I don't expect things to be easy but I think one issue is enough to deal with at one time. I refuse to complain about it. It is what it is and I can't change it and I've become a tough, hard bitch because of it.

Thursday, March 31, 2011

We-Vibe II

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G-spot and clitoral vibrator  by We-vibe
Material: Silicone

Monday, March 7, 2011

Things That Make Them Panties Drop

I can be a fickle creature when it comes to turn-ons, but I figured I'd give a go at listing them.
So here they are, they may get a little weird haha;

  • Anything touching my lower back. It is the only ticklish spot on my body and it really gets me going whether it is fingertips, lips, a feather etc.
  • An intense stare. If I can see you want me, I'm in too.
  • High heels. The higher the better. The sexier the better.
  • Corsets. I'm obsessed. Boobs out, belly cinched...heaven.
  • Height. Tall guys are my weakness and let's face it, the taller the woman, the less of a giant I feel.
  • Humor. If I'm laughing, you're likely to get a sexy smooch after.
  • Confidence. Not cockiness. I am in tune with the difference. You know what you want, you know what you like...that's hot.
  • Nipples. My nipples are connected to my lady parts further south. Play with those and you might get an O out of me.
  • Openness. The ability to try something new is very important to me and new ideas in the bedroom are always sexy to me.
  • Teeth. Mostly because bad teeth are a turn off.
  • Girly girls. I'm not into butch types. If I wanted to be with someone butch, I'd be with a guy. I want a woman. 
  • Smell. The mix of cologne and pheromones is so intense for me.
  • Strength. It is going to sound funny but I am in love with my bf's muscular thighs and arms. I can see this guy can control me and that's hot.
  • Dominance. Know what you want to do with me? Then do it. I'll happily oblige. 
  • Smoothness. I love a clean shaven guy or a girl with little to no hair except for the obvious places on the head/eyebrows and arms are fine. Guys, I can not emphasize the importance of trimming the bushes around the trunk. 
  • Optimism. Do you complain a lot? No way you're going to get anywhere near the goods.
  • Attention to detail. Do you remember what I like? I'll probably let you go further next time if you do.
  • Love. I have the hottest experiences when I'm in love with the person I'm with. They know all my turn ons and know me inside and out. A stranger can't do that and quite frankly, I'm not here to direct the show. It gets old having to direct someone new every time I want some action. I know what I like and if we're in love, you probably have mastered it all.

I will probably add to the list but I think this is a good start.

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

The Wild Trio Review

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Vibrator kit  by Nasstoys
Material: Plastic / TPR (Thermoplastic Rubber)

Monday, February 28, 2011

All truths are easy to understand once they are discovered; the point is to discover them.

There is nothing sexier than honesty. Lies keep distance you may not realize, especially in the bedroom. 

Some people may overcompensate for their secrets by obsessing over sex whether it shows in frequent masturbation or the constant need to change things up etc. Others may have sex just to get their partner off the scent. The lackluster starfish position should be a dead giveaway, I don't care how many moans come out of it.

Personal bit:
I not only know this first hand through my own relationship but from hearing and witnessing these flaws in others' relationships. It has always been a difficult situation to be in to know hidden secrets and not be able to tell the other partner of what is going on behind their back. I constantly find myself privy to information that would damage a relationship but in the end, I'm just a girl and people (in my experience) are more likely to believe their partner. It baffles me, seeing as though I have absolutely nothing to gain from being honest. I don't have an angle except to spare someone the pain that I went through. No one deserves to be cheated on or have anything they wouldn't be comfortable with going on behind their back. 

I find myself being silent and inadvertently sending the partner off to continue their disloyalty with someone who could care less about whether the individual is in a relationship or not. Just recently, a man proposed to the woman he has cheated on for months with another woman he lied to. She said yes. I suspect she still has no idea and it kills me to know she deserves better and that given the opportunity, he will do it again because he didn't face any consequences for his actions.

You can question your partner all you want, and most likely the truth will not come out until an extreme breaking point. If you randomly bring it up or state that something is worrying you, your partner may stop what their doing for a bit, but once you're comfortable again, the disloyalty will start back up. This leads into my next post which will be on communication; an integral part of honesty.

If you're worried and need a sound board to bounce off ideas on, feel free to message me or email me. I'm always here to give advice or just listen.

A Look Back

A little over a year ago I reached a peak in my relationship with my boyfriend. Well, not as much of a peak as a complete cluster fuck. For years there was long distance, lying, cheating, strip clubs, porn. So much was happening behind each others back. It all culminated when I found out he had a one night stand with a girl I warned him about. He told me the very next day. I was devastated. I was no saint, but to feel that pain was unimaginable. 

We decided  to give us one last chance. It has changed so many aspects of my life but since this is my sexual blog, I am going to focus on that.

Thursday, February 17, 2011

Eden Fantasys Rocks!

I just won a $25 gift card just for retweeting them! Going to put it towards the we-vibe II.

And don't forget to follow yours truly, lust__caution on twitter!

Monday, February 14, 2011


I am on the hunt....for nipple rings/clamps. I want pretty ones. Either like earrings or a chain. 

I should probably just suck it up and get my nipples pierced but I would so hate to lose sensation in them....


Sunday, February 13, 2011

Spanking turns me on so bad. If I were to even lay a finger on my clit after receiving one, I would cum in an instant. I find it more exciting to sit there and squirm with pleasure then to have it end in an instant.

I might be a masochist in that way. I enjoy teasing myself and not giving into temptation right away. But I'm also a masochist in other ways ;) More on that to follow.

Saturday, February 12, 2011

I highly recommend these toys:

Silicone ring with attachement and removable vibrating bullet.4" vibrator with 5 flavors of vibrations.Multi-speed rabbit vibrator with rotating pearls in shaft.

The middle one was my first vibrator ever. I ran that thing into the ground. The rabbit I love, because the controller is separate from the vibrator. I think I'd be fumbling around too much if I had to resort to controlling it from the base. The cock ring can be fun but you should get used to it on your own first so when it does come time to use it with a girl, you won't cum right away.

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My Checked Off List

As promised, here is the list I'm proud to say I've done. I suggest all of them ;)

  1. Sex on the beach
  2. Road head
  3. Sex in a hot tub
  4. Sex in a pool
  5. Sex all taped up
  6. Sex in a car
  7. Sex on sleep meds :p
  8. Sex at a rest stop
  9. Anal
  10. Sex with people in the same room
  11. Sex on cam
  12. Masturbation on cam
  13. Sexting
  14. DP, with a toy
  15. Swallow, it's the only way
  16. Done a strip tease
  17. Bought a stripper pole
  18. Own at least 50 lingerie items not including costumes
  19. Sex at the casino
  20. Sex in the rain
  21. Acted out a porn
  22. Watched lesbian porn, religiously once
  23. Given a BJ in a movie theater
  24. Been to a strip club and slapped some ass
  25. Wet dreams
Ok that's good for now. A little glimpse into my perv life.


Friday, February 11, 2011

The Sex TO DO List

I like to think I've done quiet a bit in my six years of being sexually active with someone else. (I can't even remember how long I've been loving myself) Yet there are still things I really hope to do in and out of the bedroom. Foxy Lady inspired me to make a list of these conquests! It is a bit short but my next entry will include things I've already done.

  1. Have a threesome WWM
  2. Make my own porn
  3. Go to Sexpo
  4. Do a spread for Playboy or Maxim.
  5. Get the We-vibe
  6. Sex in an elevator 
  7. Shoot boudoir pictures for some sexy ladies
  8. Have my own full blow boudoir shoot
  9. Do a pin-up sexy shoot
  10. Get a full blown dominatrix outfit
  11. Do a strip routine on amateur night
  12. Win hottest halloween costume
That's it for now. I'm sure I can add to it later.


Tuesday, February 8, 2011


Getting things started up here. Hope you'll have fun following naughty blog!